An Open Letter To: ‘Stoptryna Stylesbymia Lookmeup’

A redundant and ridiculous name, right? Don’t feel too flattered sweetie…Lee considers you a non factor… which is why I’m doing this blog post.

First off…how dare you? How dare you sit on your pedestal off in a corner some where and judge someone? Who are you? Where did you come from? Out of all the posts Lee has made, this is THE ONLY ONE you’ve posted on. What provoked such hatred for someone who is getting shit accomplished? What did Lee do to your coupon clipping ass? What gives you so much space and opportunity to talk about someone else?

An unintelligent atheist.

An unintelligent atheist.

Let me just say…for the record…that your comment holds no merit. Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Leila… a long time friend of Lee’s. I was there for her when she was struggling with her atheism and her abusive family all throughout grade school. She’s a very strong person and your comment holds no merit. Especially since you post things like this.

Your ignorance speaks volumes. You have some personal issues you need to take care of. Take a step back and look at yourself. Moving to Texas isn’t going to solve your dilemma. There’s black people there and I’m sure they’re not going to like you…and vise versa…either. You weren’t put on this earth to be liked, but you sure as hell isn’t helping yourself.

Secondly, for the record, atheism shouldn’t be the basis that one would …or should be used to measure ones intelligence. Intelligence and atheism doesn’t always compute. Atheism is the lack in a deity…no where in there does it states that atheists are immediately smart. You don’t immediately inherit a high-level IQ because you don’t have a deity to talk to.

The presumption that Lee …my good friend…is lacking in the intelligence department because her lifestyle and goals doesn’t make sense to you dumbfounds me still and it’s been a couple of days.

Yes, Lee is an atheist, she’s VERY smart…a whole lot smarter than you. Want to know why? She wouldn’t ask or even think of the questions you asked her. She would have used her brain. The one you seem to take for granted. Lee is very well informed and I assure you…. she outweighed her options.

Seeing as she A. Had a job and saved up her money till it ran out …recently… still has a roof over her head though. B. Fixed her living situation and is currently moving in to her new apartment. C. Is getting married in November and then having said child in December and D. Has a caring and supportive fiancé that loves her dearly …will rather he be without than her…and have jobs lined up as soon as they’re settled.

Yes, Lee is pregnant and very much loved by everyone around her. She doesn’t need your approval or your hatred towards her life decisions. You took the little information you did have and added your twist on her life situation without even asking her. She was homeless for a short while but that got fixed way before she got pregnant. Yes she’s starting over from scratch. Did it ever occur to you that she has her shit together? That she has resources? That she knows where to go and what to do to get things for her new apartment? No? I didn’t think so.

I’m  glad she removed you from her friend’s list, but she should have waited. So many people had so much to say to you:

strength

Notice how YOU’RE the only one who felt that way? Even if others did have  a problem with her life choices, guess what? They would have sent her message.

Lee’s atheism has nothing to do with her intelligence. To start off a conversation that way and then continue to belittle her because you’re unhappy just makes you unhappy.

A #1 problem in the black community is too many people like you kicking people while they’re getting up, which is worse than when they’re down. Get your shit together, Mia.

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